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1. You walk by your reflection and you react with... *

A soft smile. Not every day—but sometimes, I really see her. (There are moments I recognize myself and feel at peace—or even proud.)

A double take. I know her, but something’s missing. (I don’t feel fully connected—but I want to be.)

A sigh. I avoid looking too long. (It feels easier to disconnect than face what I feel—or don’t feel.)

A flinch. I brace myself or look away. (Seeing myself brings up shame, judgment, or grief.)

2. Your teenage bedroom had: *

Lava lamp and incense: Soft, moody, imaginative. A space for daydreams and introspection.

Boombox and burned CDs: Loud, expressive, emotional. Your walls pulsed with rhythm and rebellion.

Journals and late-night reflections: Private, deep, internal. A sanctuary for self-discovery and truth.

Black eyeliner + Fight Club posters: Intense, defiant, craving something real. You needed your room to match the fire inside.

3.. Your go-to weekend vibe in your 20s: *

Dancing til 2am: Bold, magnetic, alive in your skin. You made every room shimmer with your presence.

Road trips, no GPS: Spontaneous, open, untamed. You didn’t need a destination to feel like you belonged.

Poetry/songs no one saw: Quiet, artistic, romantic. You may have kept your magic hidden—but it burned bright.

Hooking up to feel something: Raw, vulnerable, searching. You craved connection like oxygen—even when it hurt.

4. Pick your power anthem artists from back then: *

Alanis Morissette or P!nk: Explosive. Fierce. You gave your anger a voice—and made no apologies.

TLC or Destiny's Child: Confident. Clear. You didn’t chase—you chose.

Fiona Apple or Tori Amos: Moody. Honest. You carried secrets and sang them softly into the dark.

Madonna or Christina Aguilera: Sacred. Sensual. You blended desire and spirituality into something electric.

5. You felt most free when: *

Wore something scandalous

Walking alone, with my thoughts, at night

Said no when was expected to say yes

Let someone really see you

6. Which 90s/early 2000s heroine still lives in your head? *

Buffy: Powerful and burdened. She carried the world—and still rose from it.

Topanga Lawrence: Wise and grounded. She followed her truth, even when it wasn’t popular.

Daria: Witty and emotionally armored. She refused to conform—on purpose.

Carrie Bradshaw: Stylish, curious, captivating. She told her story on her terms.

7. Who was your ultimate TV heartthrob growing up? (Choose your crush: 90s or late '80s — no wrong answers.) *

Cory Matthews OR Kevin Arnold: The quiet good guy. Emotionally aware. Loyal. Someone who made you feel safe, like he’d listen without trying to fix you.

Uncle Jesse OR Lloyd Dobler: Creative, romantic, a little dramatic. He made you feel like being soft and soulful was magnetic—not a weakness.

Dylan McKay OR Johnny Cade: Brooding. Intense. A little dangerous. He didn’t follow rules—and that made you want to run straight into the fire.

Pacey Witter OR Fox Mulder: Complicated. Passionate. He saw your depth and mirrored it. The one who loved fiercely—even if it scared him.

Don Johnson OR Brandon Walsh: Charming. Confident. Smooth. The guy who walked in and owned the room. He didn’t just notice you—he made you feel unforgettable.

8. You’ve changed a lot, but one thing that’s never left you is: *

Your fire

Your softness

Your craving for depth

Your desire to be seen

9. What scares you about being in front of a camera now? *

I might not look like me (I’m not photogenic. I never like pictures of myself and I’m scared this will just prove it.)

Being judged by me (I’ll pick myself apart. I always do.)

Won’t recognize myself (What if I don’t see anything worth celebrating?)

I’ll finally see myself (What if it brings up everything I’ve tried to avoid?)

10. The part of you feel you always have to tuck away or hide is: *

The wild one

The soft one

The sensual one

The truth-teller

11. These days, you want to feel... *

Unapologetically sexy

Calm and grounded

Quiet, unf*ck-with-able power

Desired and respected

12. What do you wish someone would see when they look at you? *

That I’m still beautiful

That I haven’t given up

That I have more to offer than people realize

That I am Fierce and Capable.

That I can be sexy and powerful

13. If you booked a session, what would you want it to say about you? *

She’s still got it

She’s in her power

She’s free

She said yes to herself

14. If you could gift your younger self one feeling, it would be: *

Confidence

To Feel Whole

Boundaries

Pleasure

15. A message I would tell my younger self is... *

You don’t have to shrink to be loved.

You’re allowed to want more.

You’re not too much. You were never too much.

You don’t have to prove your softness is strength

You are not broken—and you never were

16. Right now, the boldest thing you could do is...  *

Be seen exactly as you are. (Not hiding. Not filtered. Just… present.)

Take up space on purpose. (No shrinking. No apologizing. Just owning it.)

Choose yourself without guilt. (You don’t need permission to prioritize you.)

Say f*ck it—and burn the old version down. (The rebirth always starts with letting go.)

Say yes to something you've always wanted. (Especially if it makes your heart race just thinking about it.)

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