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No matter how long ago you had kids your vagina has not recovered. You often feel either numbness, irritation or pain with intercourse

Your relationship feels challenging right now, you are squabbling about dishes and childcare and don’t seem to be on the same page - or you are efficient roommates with no passion between you.

Ever since you had kids you have had a hard time seeing yourself as a sexual being. Moms don’t have sex you think, or I can’t be flirty with my partner in front of my kids

Since you had kids you feel disconnected from yourself - you can’t name a passion or hobby and don’t often know what to do with yourself when you do get a sliver of free time.

When it comes to sexy time... *

You often feel too touched out, tired or overwhelmed to have sex.

You either argue about sex or lack therefore or you are not talking about it. You regularly brush off your partners invites and you rarely initiate yourself.

You are waiting for the resentment and frustration in your relationship to shift so you can feel more desire to have sex.

Sex and pleasure don’t feel like a priority for you when all you can think about are dishes and laundry.

As you start to warm up into sex...

You have a hard time getting in the zone, the sheets feel scratchy, you are too cold or too hot, and you can’t turn off your brain.

You and your partner awkwardly communicate about how you want to do it or what position to take, things feel stilted and uncomfortable and you don’t know what to say.

Your body is taking a long time to warm up. You feel like it’s broken and doesn’t work and you wonder what’s wrong with it. What’s wrong with you.

It’s challenging for you to relax into what is happening and focus on the touch, smell, and connection with your partner. Your brain is focused on your endless to-do list.

During sexy time

It’s hard to enjoy it because you are too busy judging your body or your moves. Your are self conscious about your body.

You struggle to ask for what you need and just end up going along with it while your partner fumbles around.

You rush through foreplay or outercourse cause it’s not sex if a penis didn’t go into a vagina right?

Orgasm feels elusive - you get close but it wanders away. It feels like something you are chasing and can’t quite reach.

As you wrap up sexy time...

After a lackluster romp you freeze, don’t know what to say and roll over feeling isolated, sad and stuck.

You don’t want to hurt your partners ego and you struggle to find the words to share feedback about how the experience was for you.

You feel like you both should be “naturally” good at this and you blame your body for not responding or your partner's hands for not being nimble and magical.

You feel guilty for wasting time on intimacy and sex - especially if it wasn’t that enjoyable.

Your results are around the corner.

Your one step closer to finding out the key to unlocking your libido after kids. On the results page we will give you the downlo on your biggest block, where it comes from, and a quick couples activity to help you melt that block and get back to naked fun.

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