Choose the statements that sound like you (tick all that apply)
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I feel overwhelmed, stretched too thin
I say "yes", when I really want to say "no" (over commit)
Everything has to be perfect, before I can complete a task, invite people over, etc (perfectionist)
I find it hard to receive
I apologise when I have done nothing wrong (over apologise)
I avoid conflict to keep others comfortable
I feel lost, sad
I feel unappreciated, undervalued, unloved.
I take care of everyone else's needs (giver)
I don't remember what I use to do, that brought me joy and happiness. (Loss of identity, passion, purpose)
I just want a break, a hug, a moment to simply be.
I try to change others (fixer)
I find it hard to ask for help
I let others make decisions for me ("sit on the fence", even for small things like what movie to see)
I'm always the strong one, the responsible one, the one everyone leans on
I feel stuck in a routine (same day, on repeat)
My needs go unnoticed - even by me (Self care, 'Me time', Self love)
I try to save others (rescuer)
Do you put "Me time" on hold, and make future promises to yourself - like "I'll do it tomorrow", but tomorrow never comes?
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Yes, constantly
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
How often do you feel mentally exhausted before the day starts?
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Daily
Weekly
Occasionally
Rarely
Never
Where does your energy go? Using the list in the next question, put the list in order of where you prioritise your energy & for what percentage of your time. Eg 1. Work 60%, 2. family 30%, 3. partner 10% & so on. If you chose ‘Other,’ please share what that means for you.
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Who gets most of your energy
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Work/Your Business
Immediate Family
Partner
Extended Family
Other
I put myself first
What stops you from putting yourself first? (tick all that apply)
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Guilt
Fear of conflict
I don't know where to start
Habit
I put others first - always
Time (There's no time left for me)
I was taught to be unselfish
No support from others
I often put myself first
When was the last time you kept your commitment to yourself? (Booked something, bought something, did something that was just for you.)
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Within the past week
Within the past month
Longer than a month ago
Never
What do you hope to gain from our website and services (tick all that apply)
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To release (past) guilt and resentment
To make and keep healthy boundaries
More excitement in my day
The ability to say "yes" to myself
Support in life's transitions (career, motherhood, menopause)
Ability to say "No" (stop people pleasing)
To silence my inner critic
Happier, healthy relationships
To break free from self doubt and fear
To reduce overwhelm
To rediscover what I love and want to do ('Me' time)
What support do you want? (Tick all that apply)
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To be seen and heard
To be guided and supported
To break the generational cycle
To make lasting change
To connect with other like-minded women
To wake up each day, excited about life
A coach to hold me accountable, to my previous session's agreed actions.
What "realistic" dreams do you have, that you’re ready to turn into actionable goals? Do you have clear next steps? Who helps you stay committed and supports you when things get tough?
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If a Genie could grant you one wish, with regards to "Finding Me Again" , what would you ask for? (Unlimited Wishes doesn't count lol)
Is there anything else you'd like to share?
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Choose one or more options below. A calendar link will be emailed to you if relevant to your answers (we will need your email address). Would you like a
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Virtual Coffee
Complimentary session (1 per client)
No - just the results thank you
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Last Name
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